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Ladies love men that beat them: I try to keep these topics pretty mellow and light-hearted, but every once in a while it’s important to discuss the more intense issues that some of us face in relationships. Lately, there’s been a ton of media attention glamorizing domestic abuse. Those who aren’t in such situations never understand why some women stay in them, hence the classic question: Why on earth do women go back to men who hurt them? It’s a complicated answer, and females caught up in bad romance often don’t know how to get out until it’s too late. It’s not like this is a new phenomenon. Women have been sticking with men who abuse them for centuries. Even today, with all the available support that we couldn’t get access to in the past. That just proves how mental abusive relationships are, and usually, it’s our own traumatic histories that cause us to keep seeking the wrong things as adults. Let’s delve a bit deeper… 1) SHE HAS A HISTORY OF ABUSE Humans are such tortured creatures...

Lesbians in Nigeria: It took me a lot of cogitation before I could make this post. I also had to post this because I have seen a lot of comments from people encouraging the abominable act of lesbianism on nairaland (especially guys) that I begin to wonder where this generation of youths are headed. First and foremost, going by the bible and quran, lesbianism is an abomination. I will give references from the bible because I am a Christian. The following verses of the bible:Leviticus 18:22, 20:13, Romans 1:24-28, I Corinthians 6:9-11, Jude1:7, I Timothy 1:10, I Kings 14:24, 15:12 all attest to the fact that homosexuality ,of which lesbianism is a subset, is evil. However, the queer ones on the forum will always have a counter argument of fornication being also a sin to back up their nefarious way of life but this is not the crux of why I opened this thread so I will not dwell on the religious angle any further-I have an expose on this which I’ll reserve for another day. Secondly and...

If a guy is using you : Unfortunately, there are some crappy people out there. They’ll waste  your time to get what they want. Here’s how to tell if a guy is playing you. Your time is valuable. More importantly, your love is valuable. People know this and yet, some of them still waste your time and toy with your feelings. They’re not good people but there’s no escaping that reality. Instead, you’ll just have to learn how to tell if a guy is playing you so you can avoid wasting all your time You hear stories about guys manipulating girls into being with them when they don’t even treat them fairly. They basically just want one thing. If you know how to tell if a guy is playing you or not, you can avoid being just another notch on their belt. Why guys play girls from time to time I wish I could say they don’t mean to but most of the time, guys know just what they’re doing. They know exactly what to say and what to do in order to get a girl in bed but they have no plans to make her the...

Things girls love to hear : They say the key to a man’s heart is through his stomach but for women,  it’s through making her feel special. That’s really the main thing you have to remember with girls. If you want her to like you, make her feel unique and special to you by telling her things girls like to hear. Obviously, you can’t just string together a bunch of phrases in the hopes that it’ll get her attention. There’s more to it than that. You have to be genuine and you truly have to like the girl in order to say things she likes to hear. If you don’t, she’ll pick up on it. Mistakes that drive girls away from you We all make mistakes. When it comes to winning a girl over, those mistakes can permanently affect your chances. If you’re someone who only gives girls compliments based on her looks, that’s a mistake. She’ll see right through you and won’t want you. You have to appeal to her as more than just someone who wants her body. If you talk to her with the only goal of getti...

Who is in the list of the richest musicians in Nigeria? To find out who is the richest artist in Nigeria 2019, one should take into account the net worth of each of them. Nigerian Infopedia presented a long list with the net worth of the most popular country musicians. So swipe up to see the full list from less to more rich singers!  10. Olamide – net worth N5 billion Image :  Olamide Adedeji is known in Nigeria as Olamide (his other nicknames are Olamide Baddo and BaddoSneh). He is a rising superstar of Nigerian hip-hop music horizon. The singer was born on March 15th, 1989, in Bariga, Lagos State. By the way, he is known for recording mostly in his native language, Yoruba. His career blossomed in 2010 when he released his single "Eni Duro" and in 2011 his album "Rapsodi". The successful album was followed by the second album “YBNL”, which featured a few hit singles and they made Olamide popular in no time. Nowadays, he has seven studio albums and is featured on o...

Over the past few days, Nigerians on different social media platforms have been sent into a frenzy over the kind of  ‘Assurance’ that Davido appears to have declared as the new standard. We’ve all seen it happen before like the time when Peter Okoye proposed to his longtime girlfriend, Lola Omotayo, with a brand new Range Rover. Nigerians, especially Nigerian women, made them the new standard for which their relationships should aspire to imitate. With Davido and Chioma, we watch it repeat itself all over again four years later. While showing public affection is not necessarily a bad thing, you may want to reconsider having the couple made your ‘relationship goals’. Here are four reasons why Davido and Chioma are not the couple to aspire to be: click next page to continue reading   NEXT PAGE>>

How to get a girl who is out of your league : She’s the girl of your dreams and  makes  your heart swoon with happiness. She is the one who makes you go all dreamy and you love all the little moves she makes. The way she laughs and rolls her eyes makes your day brighter. She is the best thing that could happen to you …and she is out of your league. But hurt not. Because we tell you how you can date the girl of your dreams. So, buck up and read on. 1. Pure Intentions, Nothing Else! You cannot just purely like a girl because of the way she looks. You have to put aside this aspect of her personality and ask yourself why you like her. If you can count five reasons then you are good to go. The reasons need to be good ones, and so if you count making your ex jealous or improving your social status as one of the reasons then you definitely need some therapy. 2. Don’t Try To Be A Gentleman, Be A Gentleman A nice guy will always have a headstart as against a jerk who just wants to get ...